My 14 year old seems to lie a lot..even when it doesn't matter. I now don't know whether to believe her or not..ever. For example, she will take stuff from her sisters rooms and deny it, even when I found said clothes, makeup etc in her drawers! Yesterday I was at work and she said her trip to the cinema was cancelled and she stayed at home alone all day, but her elder sister said she told her on the phone she had a friend and boyfriend round...she hysterically denied it (and hubby thinks she has cos she was so vehmenant they DIDNT come round..and yes I coould phone their homes but don't want to make her look stupid in their eyes) She ordered a pizza she told me was £4.99, the receipt (left on the side) said £9.99...it just goes on. All her dad's xmas chocs have been eaten, and not by him..she denies eating them(must have borrowers)
I have explained I can't trust her at all cos of all her lying (and unfortunately she is a VERY good liar) and talked about how it makes it much worse when she is found out etc than if she'd told truth in first place. It scares me to be honest..what will she be like when she's an adult if she can't face the truth and feels she has to lie..or is it normal to lie so much?
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How much do your teenagers lie..is it normal?!
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febel · 06/01/2012 08:09
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