My dd has decided she hates college and doesn't want to go anymore. She has been skipping classes so much her attendance is basically in the toilet.
We have spoken to her at length over this, trying to persuade her to stay and get her A Levels but she says she hates it, is bored and wants to do something else. She was doing Photography and Psychology A levels- got an A in photography and D in Psychology at AS level.
Dh has been away for 10 days (first on a reunion jolly then in China on business) so I have been dealing with all this. I thought I had persuaded her to stay til she had something else lined up but its seems not.
How do you FORCE a 17 yr old to go to college when she hates it?
In the end (after freaking out and screaming at her about it) I calmed down and decided to support her decision and help her try and find an apprenticeship or something. She has an interview for an apprenticeship next week. it will be one day in college and 4 days in a Dr's surgery doing admin.
I really hope she will get it.
Dh is not happy (ha! bloody understatement of the year) - I get that he is upset I understand but he is saying things like she is a waste of space, stupid bitch etc etc. He is worried about what his friends will think cos his dd isn't going to Uni!!
Uni is no guarantee of a job anymore.
I am beginning to think that a dose of real life might make her think twice- when she has to work 32 hours a week for £140 a week and pay all her own petrol, lunches contribute towards car insurance, pay me housekeeping etc- she might realise that further education gives her more options.
How do I reconcile dh to her choice and how is best way to help her find a course/job/something!!!
Apologies for long rambling post.
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kansasmum · 11/11/2011 16:53
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