The other day I had to call DP for something urgent. DP was nowhere near phone and had to run into study to grab it. DD(15) was sat 30cm away from the ringing phone and didn't answer it. When asked why her response was "Well i knew it wasn't for me"
To cut a VERY long story short, she's decided to make a stand over this issue. She's been purposely rude to me about it, refuses to discuss it in an adult manner. I've spent nearly two hours trying to reason with her, trying to make her understand that this is not about the phone but basic manners to other family members. From her point of view it's a waste of her time to answer a phone call not for her and for her to possibly have to move to tell another person it's for them. In short, there's nothing in it for her. I point out that we wash & iron her clothes yet we don't benefit from wearing them!
So it's now really a battle of wills. Over the flipping phone.
Am I being totally unreasonable not to just brush this under the carpet because its a trivial thing and just let her have this one? Or do I continue to press the issue? right now I've confiscated her beloved iPhone until she apologises.
I've always thought it's best to nip bad behaviour in the bud whilst they are young but at 15, it's really unchartered territory for me.
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niceguy2 · 09/09/2011 00:24
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