My 18 year old daughter, in a nutshell - really hard worker, fought tooth and nail to get into the uni of her choice. Sensible, thoughtful, doesn't go out drinking/partying to extremes, never done drugs or smoked. Dogged, organised, thorough, financially responsible and so on.
She decided to live at home through uni, boyfriend mainly, but she does like her creature comforts. She has her own car and commuted daily 10 miles to the city. 5 weeks into term she had an accident in her car that was not her fault, she was not badly injured, neither was the other party. Her car was a write off but her insurance company were magnificent and had issued a cheque for the full value of her vehicle within 3 weeks. She bought another car, which she has driven twice. She is two paces behind me 24/7 and is constantly telling me inconsequential stories/anecdotes. She has stopped going out apart from to her b/f's house, either he picks her up or she walks.
She has to go into uni tomorrow and is catching the bus but very reluctant to go at all. She has been working from home since the accident but now has to present her work so far (which is all up to date). I have spoken to the family doctor about this situation who suggested my daughter make an apt (but she won't).
I know there is more to this than meets the eye however I can't force her to talk, plus I really want her to recognise and deal with whatever it is herself.
With a full time job and three other teenagers (boys) I am struggling to meet her demands (time) plus I am also struggling with her being at home all the time (not spending at least some time in her room as she did previously). Whilst I love her dearly and want to help her, I feel the more I do the less I am helping.
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RocketSalad · 05/12/2010 22:25
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