My eldest DD is 16 and I have been allowing mixed sex sleepovers for as long as she has been having sleepovers. The main reason for this is, my daughter since age 7 has gone to an all girls school but has very close friends in partner all boys school, which she went to Infant school with.
When she has a sleepover, which is usually once/twice a month she invites about 4 other girls and 3/4 boys. My daughters bedroom is on the top floor of our house with two other bedrooms, one of which is used as a games/t.v room where they spend most of the time and the other is a guest room, my husband sleep on the floor below with my 2 other dc. (The reason I am explaining this is to show they are quite isolated from us)
I make sure I go up now and again in the evening, and usually say they either all sleep in the games room (on sofa bed/ and mattresses etc) or all girls go in my dughters room and boys in games room.I always insist that guest room is not to be used.
However last weekend found that bed in guest room has been slept in. When I asked my daughter she said two of the girls had wanted to get some sleep and were being disturbed so went in there.
My daughter is a very well behaved girl, but I am not sure if I believe her.
Should I carry on allowing these sleepovers?
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Am I wrong to allow mixed sleepovers?
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ettie69 · 18/11/2010 12:54
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