Please tell me, what does one wear on a date?

[TheOozingPusOfSeptimusSquelch]

Suddenly all my clothes look horrible.

Jeans?

Help!

[MakemineaGandT]

Whatever makes you feel confident and attractive of course

Go and buy something new if need be

Good luck!!

PS Who's the lucky man?!

[TheOozingPusOfSeptimusSquelch]

Can't buy anything else new 'til payday

I have a nice new coat, but as to what to wear underneath it, I haven't got a clue. Presumably I do have to wear something underneath it, right?

[KristinaM]

depends on where and when it is

[Kbear]

hotpants and a sequinned boob tube

[TheOozingPusOfSeptimusSquelch]

Um, lunch date

Sequinned boob tube is at the dry cleaner unfortunately

[KristinaM]

lunch date at the weekend? then jeans ok, unless its a smart place. nice top in a colour. not black unless you look GREAT in black.

if during the week then what you normally wear to work ( assuming you are going in your lunch break)

date will not notice smart coat unless you plan to wear it during the meal. esp if its a man

[KristinaM]

at lunch?????

[TheOozingPusOfSeptimusSquelch]

Oh no, I am A Nice Girl and will not be showing off my underwear or getting laid on a (first) lunch date.

Although of course one never knows ones luck

[electra]

My advice

Wear heels, not wedges

either show off leg or cleavage but obviously not both at the same time

it's fine to wear jeans but I would wear skinny jeans as they show your figure off more

[LetThemEatCake]

Nice knickers def, even if not on show.... Just to make you feel a bit ooh la la

I'd go for tactile/ textured stuff... Sends a subliminal message (in the words of susan Sarandon.... T t t t t tooouch meeeee)

Knit dress and boots?
Cord skirt, sweater, boots?

Wish I was going on a date!! Have fun

[TheOozingPusOfSeptimusSquelch]

Thanks for your suggestions So - heeled boots, jeans, no pants nice pants, and nicely textured top / tunic (I havethis one - is it too dull? Need nice accessories I suppose)

I am so overthinking this. Haven't been on a date in aaages so maybe this is a way displacing the nerves. He says he'll be wearing crushed velvet loon pants and a green tank top.