I've been colouring my hair since my late thirties to cover grey. I got fed up in my mid 40s and had a very short crop and stopped with the dye. It was very liberating and I felt free and strong.
Then I was tempted back into dyeing it again. My friends wanted me to go back, partly I suspect because my grey hair reflected badly on them, people would realise their age more perhaps. My new partner expressed when asked his opinion, a preference for darker and longer hair.
I have enjoyed growing my hair longer and going dark again but it's such a faff to keep it up and expensive and it's not doing the condition any good. I think I'd like to keep the length but return to grey.
Anyone made a positive decision to go grey, against the opinion of friends, partners etc? Did the attitude of other people, toward you change? My friends say that it will immediately cause people to treat me differently, that society makes assumptions based on looks and no matter how positive I feel I'll be creating some kind of limit on how society views me, as an older woman.
Also on a practical level is it best to go a bit lighter and fade to grey as it were or just let it grow in with the grey stripe down the parting, badger-like?
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Stopping dyeing and returning to grey
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FenellaFieldmouse · 16/03/2016 11:30
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