hairstyles for fine, thin, fair hair?

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Please help me! My hair is making me sad.

I've got long, fine, poker-straight, dyed blonde (naturally an uninspiring shade of beige) hair with an awful straggly growing-out fringe & loads of cow licks at the front that prevent any elegant side-sweeping. To make matters worse, I've lost a lot of hair this year due to hormonal upheaval from several pregnancy losses.

Bobs make me look dowdy, and short styles don't suit my weak chin and oddly masculine neck face shape.

Any suggestions for cuts / colours that would look polished and feminine and help give the illusion of more hair??