hi, im new by the way im in need of some help none of my family or friends are in this postion so iv had very little outside help, ands its got to the point were i think im going to go mad. me and my husband have two children 2yr and 3 months he has a child from a previous relationship of 8 i knew this when we first met and its never been a problem we all get on well theres never benn any stess or tention he,s liked me from the word go and has always been respectfull so pretty perfect really. i look after him alot as his mum works and i dont feel its fare on him to push him from piller to post though it can be hard work looking after all three and iv never had so much as a thankyou from the ex, anyway back on subject he's always adorded his sister being an only child at home but recently and it started befor baby came along it been harder and harder to have them both together my daughter is polte and well behaved we do get the t2's rear there head accasionally but thats to be expected but when there together all he seems to do is wind her up and get her in trouble takes things from her all the time so much so she has a real thing now about what is 'hers' the weekends have just become a time of dread this weekend i just wanted to take our kids and stay at my mums i dont like to telling him off all the time for obvious reasons and i end up telling her off when its not rally necasary to even it out sometimes i catch him being really mean to her but its always me that see's it and not dad i'll stop there because i could go on and on pls help im at the end of my tether i love my husband and i dont want it to come between us oh i have tried talking to dad but unfortunatly he feels there is little he can do to change behaviour because he doesnt live with us and ex does not take critism
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mrsjammilovessantababy ·
05/12/2008 09:56
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