Hi all,
First post on here, hope I can get some advice!
I've been with my partner now for the best part of 7 months, we live quite a distance apart (Newcastle and Carlisle) but when we see each other, it's usually for about a week at a time.
My partner has an amazing toddler, who will be 3 in December.
I know obviously this is still early days, but I was wondering from experience how long it took your toddlers to get used to your partner. She is happy calling me daddy, and she will sit with me and get cosy watching films, or play with me sometimes, if mum isn't around, but as soon as mum comes back, she goes straight for her. I can take her up to bed, and get her settled fine and things like that too.
Another thing which i've noticed is, if i'm trying to talk to the toddler asking what she's doing or if she's ok, to me, she will 9/10 answer "no", but to her mum/grandma, it's always yes, or she'll try and have a conversation with them.
Note to add, she hasn't had any contact with the biological father at all.
Any advice you could give would be great, I know she's a toddler, and it isn't personal, but quite honestly, it does hurt! haha
Thanks all!
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CraigSwaddle · 09/11/2016 15:17
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