I have two grown up children who are married with children. I am married for a second time and live in my husband's home with his daughter and son who are late teens/early 20's. We have been together for 5 years. Right from the start we agreed not to parent each others children. Mine were grown and his have a mother who lives nearby that they see every week although they live with us full time . I cook most days and do bits around the home but don't get involved otherwise as my husband was a single parent for a long time and likes to do it himself. The youngest is fine and we get on well but the oldest has an attitude problem. He went travelling and has been back a few weeks and has not settled back in. He never eats with us, never says if he is going to be out, doesn't interact at all but the biggest problem is that he smokes weed in his bedroom pretty much every day. His dad asked him not to but he has ignored him and carried on. There has always been tension between my husband and his son but it seems to have got worse. I have offered to speak to him about it but he has asked me not to. The trouble is his attitude causes problems between my husband and me as we have been arguing about it.
Do I just put up with it or do I ignore my husband and say something to stepson?
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Bossyboots13 · 04/05/2016 14:05
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