I have one DSS who is 9. He's great and we have a good relationship. He's with us for the Easter holidays. Last week DP was off work. This week I'm off work, so I'm looking after him.
I'll start by saying I do suffer from anxiety. It's not been too bad lately but yesterday evening it started creeping up again and I'm having one of those wanted to hide under a blanket days today.
I feel like I'm not doing enough with DSS.
This week we've made cakes, made slime, watched a film together and generally pottered around. He had a sleepover at his cousins earlier in the week. This evening we'll be going bowling. Tomorrow we're going the park with my niece and nephew.
He pointed out to me just now that his dad is normally the one to come up with ideas for things to do. This made me sad because I don't think it's always the case. We just tend to do the bigger days out when we're all together.
We had a little holiday over the Easter break which we all enjoyed. Last week he spent most of his time at his nans (my dp was looking after her as she's recently had a stroke).
I'm not even sure what I'm asking. I think I just need to know what to do when you're looking after a child whilst having a bit of an anxious and down day.
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BumblingBee89 · 07/04/2016 11:02
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