My partner moved in with me and my 14yr old son recently and his 6yr old daughter also stays 2 -3 nights per week. She is a lovely girl however it is quite evident that my partner and I take a very different approach to parenting. This was clear before he moved in however it is now more apparent. I have been a full time single mum and have therefore had to act as both parents and implement routine, discipline etc where as my partner takes a more laid back approach.
My partner’s daughter often speaks in a baby voice which I find quite frustrating as at 6yrs old I don’t feel this is necessary. I’ve noticed my partner talking to his daughter in a child like voice on occasion which probably doesn’t help!
In addition to this, he seems to do a lot for her that I feel he should be encouraging her to do on her own like going to the toilet, getting dressed, putting shoes and socks on etc. She is capable of doing these things for herself but my partner seems to insist on doing it for her.
My problem is that I am not sure whether I should mention this or leave him to it? I think it’s important that a parent teaches their child to become independent and would only want to bring it up to help but feel if I did say something it might be taken as a criticism. Also, is it my place to say anything?
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Allen83 · 07/09/2015 15:44
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