My two young step children now reside primarily with me and their Father and our daughter. My partner works full time and I am a stay at home mum to all of the children. They have a Mother whom they see on alternate weekends.
Things are very hostile between my partner and his ex and she absolutely despises me. She has previously tried to physically snatch the children from my care (outside of her Court ordered contact time) using the fact she has PR and I do not of course, which is upsetting from everyone and has resulted in Police being called due to her causing a scene in public :(
A new Child Arrangements Order will be made at a Court Hearing in a few months. It will be roughly the same as now just more specific about contact arrangements, it needs to be specific about times and dates and all eventualities as there is absolutely zero communication between my partner and his ex (she refuses to even receive emails about the children).
We have been advised by his Solicitor that if the Child Arrangements Order states my name alongside his as with whom the children reside I will automatically get PR for the children and that we should seriously consider that as something he may wish to request at Court given that I am the stay at home parent and I do most school runs/liaise with school, GP visits, dental appointments etc.
Does anyone have any experience of this? Would this be helpful given the children live with us or would it be entirely pointless? Would the Judge even consider it or is it not the done thing when the child's non resident parent has regular contact?
Thank you.
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MrsChiefTyrell · 29/04/2015 01:01
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