Hi I have a DSS (7), a DSD (4) and a 10 month old DS.
The DSC visit at weekends and during the week they are at their mums. Up until now, me and the mother have been civil, not really had a lot of conversation but not out and out unfriendly.
Last weekend me, DSD and DS went to soft play together while DSS had some time at home with his dad. Everyone was happy. Me and DSC get on fine. Sometimes if DSD is ill, it's easier for me to look after her while DSS goes out and has fun.
However this weekend DSS said to me that "Mummy said that DSD should spend less time with you and more time with Daddy and that we aren't here to see you"
How would you feel? It's made me feel like I shouldn't spend any time on my own with DSD and I should keep myself away from them. Would you confront the mother about it as I'm also not happy about messages getting passed to me through him.
Thoughts gratefully received
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Moomoomee · 11/05/2013 15:11
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