This is more of a search for others in the same situation really than advice.
Our DSS (nearly 14yrs) has come to live with us after breakdown in relationship with his BM. Lots of constant shouting n stressful environment at BMs combined with high volume of new boyfriends, put the lid on it for DSS really. He asked to move out. DSD is still with BM. Anyone got similar situations as to how this works for you more around dealing with feelings of abandonment by the sister as brother has gone?
I think it's going ok right now and give lots of reassurance to her that nothing will change as they're still together EOW, but sister is worried that BMs frosty behaviour towards DSS will get directed at her Now he's gone. School is aware of situation n watching DSD like a hawk. Is it inevitable that DSD will end up here too in time?
I should say i'm totally cool with SC coming here, have a great relationship with the kids, but wonder what others have experienced?
Any advice/ comments welcomed.
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Lostinsuffolk · 12/01/2013 11:36
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