Hi,
I'm after some advice here about bedrooms...
Our situation is myself and DH have a DS who is 2.4 and a DSS (DH's son) who is 9 almost 10 who we have 3 nights a week.
At the moment DSS has the big bedroom with his toys in and a TV etc - (no wardrobe as DH's EW does all DSS's washing etc as thats the way it was before I even came along and DSS brings a backpack with him when he stays with us with clean clothes etc) and our DS has a small bedroom with just enough room for his bed and his wardrobe. This works well for us at the moment.
However I brought the subject up this morning of maybe in a few years time say when DS is about 6 the boys would be able to swap rooms and DS can have his toys in his the big room and as DSS would probably be out more with his mates or playing computer games etc so I said we could decorate the small room for DSS new carpets etc, get him a flat screen tv, new desk etc and a games console and DS can have the bigger room.
Apparently this is a no go area as DH thinks this in unfair on DSS. Whereas I think this is unfair on our DS who would be in the small room 7 nights a week with the big room free 4 nights a week.
I would just like some advice / opinions on this please.
And before anyone says anything I love my DSS very much and have been with his dad for 4 years and would never want to kick him out or make him feel un welcome I just think swapping rooms is common sense.
Thanks
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myflabberisgasted · 18/09/2012 09:10
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