I am a regular poster but have name changed. If I state that my partner has 4 kids, I'm sure many of you will know who I am.
To cut a very long story short;
My DP has been accused by his ex wife of physically assaulting his twelve year old son whilst he was in our home with my partners 2 other children and my son. This is not the case although my partner did physically restrict his sons access to another room and did move him two steps in the other direction by his arm. I witnessed the whole situation from start to finish and my partner did nothing that I or any of my friends and family haven't done in their parenting.
There was a lot of build up to the event and my DP son was being very defiant, rude and un-cooperative.
His ex has contacted the police, social services, sent an e-mail telling my partner that his actions are unforgiveable and been to her solicitors. Her own mother was here a few minutes after the event and she is supporting us as much as she can although she didn't see the actual incident she saw how defiant and un-co-operative my DP son was being.
All this happened over a week ago. We have not had any contact from the police, school, social services or any other professional only an e-mail from her and a solicitors letter asking my partner to give his account of what happened.
It is not the first time she has contacted the police etc. and no action has been taken previously. However, this was before myself and my now 14 year old son had moved in with my partner.
We have found out this evening that she tried to persuade her son to make a statement to the police but he is refusing to do so at the moment.
So, my question is what is likely to happen now? And on a personal level, should I be concerned that if my partners son does make a statement and lies about the facts (assuming the facts I stated above does not constitute assault.), that social services could get involved in my life with regards to my son?
I should also point out that his ex is allowing contact to continue with 2 out of his 4 children.
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feelingabitconcerned · 27/05/2012 22:04
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