This isn't really a question for advice more 'what does everyone else do?' IUSWIM!
When we fetch the DSD & DSS DPs Ex is always in a bad mood, always sneers and makes a huge fuss about them "being good for dad" which really seems to wind the kids up. It's frustrating as Ex hates me with a passion and stills seems v bitter about DP which after nearly 5 yrs I would have thought she should have got over by now esp because she was having the affairs and she wanted the divorce.
It's got to the point now where if I get out of my car she stares at me like I'm some kind of alien and she huffs and tuts her way around the car park being all dramatic. Ive recently taken to just sitting in the car and let the kids get in and then drive off so I don't even have to look at her which I find sad, but whatever I do (or DP) she's just awful to us. I'd like it to be as stress free as it can for the kids but she makes it so difficult. Btw I do ignore it all and not rise to her as I want to be an adult about it all but it's really hard when someone's being so bloody awkward especially in front of her own kids! What do others experience?
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Lostinsuffolk · 04/05/2012 17:00
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