the point where i am finally defeated. DSS (to be 8) mother has said that DD1 (3.5) is NOT to attend DSS party (jointly organised and paid for by DP and her) as DSS has decided he doesnt want her to attend. Ordinarily, I would be up in arms but you know what? I am just lying down and giving up on this one. I fundamentally do not agree that a child of 8 should be able to dictate which family members are around to celebrate his birthday. Friends yes. Family members no. I understand it may not be very 'cool' at 8 to have your little sister tagging along, and I understand that DSS wants the attention for himself for the time from his father (it is his birthday after all!!) but i think that quite frankly its the totally wrong message to be sending to both children. But, I have honestly reached the point in my journey as a step parent that I am just not willing to fight this and as hard as I have tried, DD1 and DSS relationship will never be like a common and garden mum, dad and two kids kinda relationship. So, I give up. Anyone else reached this point?
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