DH is taking ex to court for better access and potentially residency. DSS is 10.
We used to live 10 mins walk away from her, but she moved to a small village an hour away (on a good journey), and we've also moved (but only 5 miles away from where we were before). Our move was planned long before hers, but she rents so can move much more quickly.
DSS had no choice in the move (kind of fair enough as he's 10) but he has moved schools and away from friends and his entire world has changed.
So, DH thinks we can get him back into his old school if he lives with us and generally make life happier for him. He is going to see Cafcass on Friday, and my understanding is that they will also speak to DSS. But, won't they want to speak to me? Doesn't seem that way. DH is expecting me to do half (probably more) of the childcare for DSS, so don't I get a look in? I'm currently planning to return to work after mat leave (DD is 10 months old and we do need the money), and the jobs I'm applying for are very much office hours, so not compatible with the dreaded school run that it seems I'll be doing.
Does anyone have any experience of Cafcass? Do they actually help, or they just another government organisation adding a layer of bureaucracy? What do they do? Anyone?
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bonnymiffy · 05/03/2012 14:21
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