we are having dp dc for christmas, yeah. here come the dilemma, buying pressies for 6 kids is starting to get really pricey. i have been adamant that they all get the same spent on them and that it should be special dp is less worried about it.
my eldest dd wants a jd bug scooter its £60 thats fine (mostly) she understands that as you get older your pressies tend to get more expensive and less. but that means that i feel i now need to make sure everyone has that amount spent on them.
dp says not to worry about bumping it up with his kids he says they get swamped with pressies from his family and ex's family. that they never spent more than 50 pounds on christmas pressies because of it. he says he understands its different for me because my kids wont really get much from grandparents, aunt and uncles etc but his cant move for pressies.
i dont really know what to say to that.
it makes me feel a bit uncomfortable and i am not sure why, is it just pregnancy hormones.
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samwellsbutt · 23/11/2011 23:18
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