Hello
My hus and I have been asked by his ex to be possible guardians to her other children. Hus own child is 18 and working. I wondered if anyone has experience of this and if so, what issues (eg does the ex have to inform the childrens grandparents etc, are we required to maintain other family relationships and with who) were raised and what was your final decision.
We have talked about:
Location (were in different counties)
Tuition Fees / Education (ex's other children are 5 and 15)
Housing
Financial assistance
We have our own child and hope for another (in the next year or so!)
At the moment my gut reaction is so say no...but want to be able to say we have considered all the options.
Hus and his ex split up over 16 years ago...but have remained cordially...
Should add other childrens father is out of the picture, Im also asking because we want to make sure the ex has the full picture, particularly as some of the family relationships on her side have involved the courts (not my hus!). This is obviously a last resort and what ifs, but we want to be sure of what we might be agreeing to...
Many Thanks
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littlejosh · 26/04/2011 12:49
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