was at Gullivers Land (Milton Keynes) with DS1's nursery trip today. When he and 2 of his friends were playing in one of the soft play areas a group of 4 older children came in - each with an individual carer . I'm guessing that they had SN - but wouldn't like to hazard a guess (as the mother of 2 NT DS's) what type.
Anyhow, we were just about to leave as the boys wanted to go "on a train" (hope they don't think we left because they came in ). I sat DS1 (4 1/2yrs) down on the bench to put his shoes on, and on of the other children (I'd guess about 10-12yrs old) was sat next to him have his shoes taken off by the carer.
He pointed at DS1 and said "What that". I guessed (having a 20 month old who asks "wa dat" for asking the name of anything/one) that he was asking "who's that" and was about to say "That's DS1's name" when the carer pulled his arm back and said (I thought) very abrubtly (nearly shouting!)
"it's not what that, it's who's that.....oh and you DON'T point either"
The boy looked really shocked (god knows how I looked) and we left without me actually telling this boy DS1's name.
That happen about 10.30 this morning and it's been playing on my mind all day. Can't help wondering how his mum would have felt hearing him spoken to like that - and it just seemed such a horrible way to talk/treat him.
In fact I actually feel a little guilty that I didn't just continue with what I was going to say as I was also going to encourage DS1 to say hello.
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QueenOfQuotes · 18/07/2005 22:26
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