I have already posted this on the pregnancy board, but a couple of people suggested mentioning it over here where I have asked for advice a few times anyway.
We had our 12 week scan this week where they also did the various tests for Down's. The NT and nasal bone were both fine but the baby had vicuspid regurgitation (leaky heart), giving us an overall probability of 1/36 for the baby having Down's Syndrome.
My wife's first son (my stepson) is seven and severly disabled with global development delay, so it throws up so many thoughts for me.
How we'd cope with two disabled children?
How my wife would cope emotionally with feeling knowing she had produced two disabled children with different fathers and that it must therefore be her "fault" (this is my biggest worry in a lot of ways)?
The fact that in a child with Down's would probably be less severe than our other child and whether I should feel lucky just for that.
The fact that even if we get a negative result for Down's it could be an indicator of another chromosonal problem (the same as my stepsons? They have never been able to find anything abnormal with him genetically, but that is of course a very possible root of his difficulties).
I am trying to concentrate on the 35/36 rather than the 1/36 but it isn't easy.
We (hopefully) get the results of our CVS on Friday.
Sorry for the long post.
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Mitford · 04/06/2008 11:17
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