...me and DH, but mostly me
He really hurts me , and I don't know how to stop him.
Getting cross with him just makes things worse, he explodes and hits/pinches more.
Calmly putting him on his bed doesn't seem to have any effect. He does apologise and sounds like he means it, but he does it again and again all day long.
Removal of toys or any other punishment/consequence also leads to an explosion and doesn't stop him doing it again later anyway.
I generally try to talk to him about things rather than punishing, etc, but this is starting to get me down big time.
Today he has pinched my face and arms (leaving bruises ), slapped me across the face, kicked me in the eye whilst laying on the sofa watching t.v. I am getting seriously fed up.
He is 4.6 and DOES know that hitting/pinching is not allowed.
He does not get smacked and I have never pinched him back (tempting tho it is). Do you think that he doesn't realise he hurts me ? I think he does, but he just doesn't care.
I can understand that he might lash out if he feels scared or angry, but it happens without warning and I can't work it out.
Any advice ?
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TheodoresMummy · 28/05/2008 16:08
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