OK here goes
I'm a regular poster here, with 2 sos all with additiona needs
DT1(4) was seen today by the autism specialist and this is the history for all who dnt know.
ok so twins arrived at 29 weeks and had a difficult start, dt1 strugled more than his brother. DT1 was VERY demandng as baby we often thought he would hve loved o bean only child, however despite his prematurity he reached al his milestones ahead of time
From 1-1.5yrs he threw MJOR tantrums, NEVER played with his toys blah lah blah, when he was 2 I went t the health visitor as we could no longer copewit his violence or his lack of danger awareness- thre twin down stairs,tried getting out upstairs window, almos set house o fire the list is endless.
Anyway assesmnets began, most thiking autism, then changing their mind, then thinking autism.
So for 3-4 yrs this has went on and finally today we see autism specialist, who said
" While it's very clear that DT1 has many autistic traits, he isnot autistic, however, had he been just a couple of yrsolder we would have confirmed him as having aspergers syndrome. Unfortunatly as he is jus 4 weare unable to do that however in a couple of years should we meet again I will have no hesitation in confirmin this"
WTF!!!! If this is his difficulty help him now FFS. Meanwhile we contine with the violence, behaviours etc and can get no assistance for couple of yrs where is te logic in that?
Has anyone else had this? We feel delighted but furious at te same time
any advice would be greatly appeciated
TIA
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Jambuttie · 25/04/2008 21:42
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