dd1 who has cp has just started Brownies
her Brown Owl said she could not start without one to one help so we recruited a teenager - of course we are paying her
but there is another Brownie due to start who is also disabled, not as severely affected as dd (but because she is not as affected she does not need a walking frame like dd does, so she is easily knocked over. dd is very firm on her feet, being supported with steel at four corners ) and she has not been asked to provide a supporter. The girl's mum is a friend of mine
My mum was talking to Brown Owl and mentioned this other girl, and Brown Owl said that they were hoping that when she started, my dd's supporter could help with her too
Now I think this is a bit of a blardy cheek, asking the most disabled child who happens to be passing to provide a supporter for someone else. I am paying this girl, I sorted it out, and she is my employee not Brownies'. If they had approached me and her mum together we could have sorted something out together, I know her mum would have been okay with that. But instead they have said that my daughter needs a supporter, and said nothing at all to her
anyway I have just got a message from Brown Owl asking me for the teenage girl's phone number so she can ring her. I have emailed back to say she can tell me anything she wishes me to pass on and I will talk to the girl when she comes to pick up dd
Do you think I need to ring Brown Owl and make clear that this girl is not an extra helper at Brownies, she is my paid employee, and if she wants to start dictating what she does and doesn't do with other children it should come through me? I don't know what the message is or what she wants to talk about but surely whatever it is, large or small, it is MY business since she is my employee?
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Cappuccino · 28/02/2008 13:53
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