Just wanted a moan really, Why is it when i think of something good to do with DS we have a ball until it has to end, there is no reasoning with him so i end up feeling crap and exhausted and he is sobbing and screaming. Makes me feel like i shouldn't have bothered with it in the first place
We just had a great time cleaning the car, well when i say we i mean ME cleaning and DS turning and pressing every button/lever/switch he can find. He loves the car and exploring it, we have a driveway but no gates at the end to keep him away from road, so he never gets to play in the car unless it's when i'm cleaning it. TBH though it's other things aswell, i can't give him or do something as a treat as he wants it all the time,eg he has major obsession with phones, the other day my mum gave him her new one to play with but when she was leaving and wanted it back he went into an almighty tantrum. He has always done this and he did get a little better but he's as bad as ever again. Is this typical for anyone else? I can't explain it to him(i do try) because his speech is very limited and he doesn't understand long sentences.
Do i just persevere and ignore the tantrums or is it kinder to not let him in the car in the first place even though he loves it?
Ok i'm finished ranting now, feel a little better already. Normally it doesn't get to me but am more stressed than usual so i guess it just got me down a bit.
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Why does it always end with a tantrum?
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monkeypie · 07/02/2008 16:02
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