mum has arranged the possibility of taking dd1 ice-skating
dd1 (7) walks with a walking frame - she has been ice-skating once, last winter, hasn't really mentioned it since. She went in her wheelchair with me pushing me, but said to my mother later "I would have liked to have done it on my legs". This really touched my mother and she has come up with a whole load of crackpot schemes, such as suggesting taking her rollerskating and pulling her between us.
I think it is better that dd gets to do things that she can do eg riding her special trike, swimming rather than get to do something just once that is really difficult
I really think it is more my mum wanting to do it than dd
anyway she has talked to an ice rink and come up with a scheme to take her in a harness with two instructors but it would mean her missing half a morning of school
I don't want her to miss school. I don't like her missing school. I have already arranged for her to miss a very rare day that week because there is a disability sport day locally that I think it would be nice for her to go to, with other disabled children doing things tailored to their needs
but I also think part of me wants to say no because I think it is my mother's agenda and not hers
mum is great with her btw and completely 'gets it' (usually) she's not in denial or anything
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Cappuccino · 04/10/2007 17:25
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