I am a teacher in a reception/group 1 class and have concerns about a child in my class who, in my limited experience, seems to be dispaying some of the symptoms of autism. The teacher who had this child last year has left and there are no written records of her concerns although I do know she was thinking along the same lines as me and my colleague. Mum is lovely, very open and friendly and easy to talk to. I have heard that Dad was very defensive and refused to recognise that there could be a problem, saying that any problems were simply because of age and that his son would grow out of them.
The kind of things which concern me include anxiety, fidgiting - in fact, constant bobbing up and down, obsessive and repetitive behaviour eg listening to the same song/story tape again and again, for weeks on end, a dislike of any kind of touching inc holding hands with other children, obsession with rules, dislike of any change to routine to a point where he breaks down in tears if we decide to do x before y as usual. Clarity of speech is also a concern.
As I said, I will obviously discuss my concerns with the SENCO as I don't have experience in this field but what is the best way to approach the parents? How did you feel as parents of special needs kids when the class teacher/nursery teacher raised these kind of concerns? Was it a relief to have your own concerns recognised or did you feel very defensive?
Any help or advice would be very gratefully received.
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oxocube · 14/09/2007 19:46
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