Hi,
I've have a 5 year old who has always seemed unusual but is in mainstream school. He is very 'high maintainance' - has big problems accepting transitions between activities ie. trying to get out of the house even to do something nice like go to the park, or stopping play for meals. He's been like this for as long as I can remember, so we have done our best to keep routines so he knows what happens next. He is ok at school (which I guess has routines of it's own) although if he has a supply teacher he comes out of school obviously upset and is hard to handle. (will do things like lie on the pavement and bang head on ground).
At weekends/after school I can feel trapped in the house because I can't persuade him that we need to go out and buy food etc. Until he started school I had a big mountain buggy so I could strap him in and push him but now he's big I'm at my wits end sometimes. He has big meltdown tantrums - screaming out of control, hurting me, hurting himself, almost always at bedtime at the moment, and at least one a day at weekends. I can't believe that this is normal for an almost 6 year old (although I have to say I don't know many other boys the same age)
Anyway, either I'm a shit mother (although dd seems normal enough and just has normal age appropriate tantrums) or he's a sad boy - because he certainly doesn't seem happy a lot of the time.
I sort of assumed that if he had AS or something, then it would become apparant at school, but school don't have any problems, other than him being incredibly quiet and non-contributive in class. So I guess that must mean it's me/dh and crap parenting skills?
Any tips?
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Stresslet · 15/04/2007 11:51
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