So in the morning we see the ed psych about DD1, she is 15 and has been struggling for a while in school which I am ashamed to say I didn't notice. I am even more ashamed to say we have always thought she was a bit of a ditzy blonde. DS3, her first younger brother has always had such obvious issues, DS4's epilepsy and deafness and DD2's deafness and dairy and soy allergy took up so much time I failed to see it in DD1 until this year when she had to come to me and tell me! So here I am at half past two in the morning feeling overwhelmed with guilt and going over and over in my mind all the things the ed psych might say whilst going over all the things I had failed to spot with DD. The more I go over it the more I want to kick myself! The number of times I have been exasperated with the poor girl and told her to get a grip or use some common sense when most likely she was doing her very best. Now I can see there were issues, not least the fact she never goes anywhere unfamiliar, not even five minutes down the road, if she doesn't know the route and hasn't repeated it several times before, giving her directions is difficult to say the least. And her naivety is unbelievable. She doesn't deal with periods at all well and disposal of sanitary pads is a particular problem. I guess I am just finding it hard to cope with this time, it feels as though my parenting is, to be quite frank, shit!
I really should be grateful for the speed at which the school have dealt with my concerns, the ed psych assessed her the day after I signed the permission slip which is quite impressive.
Anyone else miss the signs something wasn't quite right?
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MrsSam · 13/10/2016 02:47
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