Ds has had global developmental delays, which were picked up at his 2 and a half year check. He now has grommets, and his speech has improved enormously. He still didn't have a clue about potty training just after his 4th birthday, but 6 months later he can finally do wees on the toilet and stay dry during the day.
I can't remember the last time ds did a poo on the toilet, and when he did it just seemed to be a lucky catch for us. It's very frustrating now, as we have just sat him on the toilet and kept him in the bathroom for over an hour. He hadn't been all day, and will usually poo at least once or twice a day. He insisted that he didn't need to go, and that he was trying. It seemed cruel, and he was getting upset, so I let him come out and put a pull up on. When we go to put him to bed less than half hour later, he's pooed in the pull up. He does this every time. I'm so sad about it, because soon it's no longer going to be just my problem, but it's going to become his embarrassing problem. We've tried stickers and rewards. He loves to watch videos on my phone, and I've told him he can once he does a poo on the toilet. Obviously we've tried sitting him on the toilet for long periods of time, after meals when he usually goes. I don't understand. I thought that he just couldn't control it, but now I'm thinking that he just prefers to go in the pull up for some reason. His diet is good, and he has never been constipated, his stools are always formed, and he goes at least once a day. I don't know what else to try. He has to wear pants with a sanitary towel at school, at the school's suggestion as they kept having to throw his pants away. We will be seeing the school nurse soon, but I seriously don't know what else to try. I just feel like crying.
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Stanky · 01/03/2016 18:53
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