DS1 - has high functioning asd and possible dyslexia. He is currently in year 3 at a state primary school.
His IQ is on the 99.6th centile but he has massive issues with processing, focusing and stamina for writing.
I am so worried about how he will cope at Secondary school. He is never going to get a statement as not failing and not disruptive, but his teacher is starting to say that his concentration is getting worse, he makes excuses when ever hand writing comes up etc.
I have always thought, in a "we will never have the money way" that if we did have the money, the best thing for him would be to send him to a small private secondary school, a really obscure one, that specialized in children like him.
DH pointed out yesterday that, because we live in outer London, we have enough equity in the house, that we could move somewhere really obscure and cheap much further out, and free up the equity to actually do that.
We would need a school and an area where DH could actually commute to London (he can't change jobs) - even if it took a while, the school would need to specialize to a certain degree in children like DS.
I don't know if all that is possible, and I certainly would be grateful for any suggestions, but my first question is. Would you do, or have you done that for your child with ASD, and if you have done it, did it help>
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