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We are awaiting a GP referral. DS's nursery have suggested he be referred but are unwilling or unable to say what their suspicions are. He is 3 years old and has been described as "in his own world" and is happy to play on his own rather than with other children. They are encouraging him to play with others but even when appearing to do so, is still just playing his own games. He's quite obsessive about certain games - ninjas and other such, picked up from his older DB - and insists only only playing these games.
He also had some vacant moments when he will sit alone at nursery, sometimes staring apparently into space, until a teacher speaks to him. They have mentioned absense seizures but I have yet to witness anything. He does seem to have a vivid imagination, and as he walks along, at school pick up for example, he will jump, run, fight, pretending to be a ninja. I can see what they mean about his own world but I put this down to a good, somewhat intense imagination.
He socialises well with his DB but they do share playing interests. He also plays well with his cousin of a similar age.
Other observations: his speech is very good, motor skills fine, empathy great, eye contact good and excellent at numbers, alphabet etc. He loves the colour yellow, grinds his teeth (daytime) incessantly and is very strong willed. He jumps a lot when excited. He is stubborn and very active. Sensory issues are mild; mild dislike of loud noises and doesn't like eating or drinking anything which is too warm or too cold. Time out doesn't not work. He does not seem interested, particularly in other children but only in playing his own games.
A recent audiology report has come back as mild hearing impairment in one ear through glue ear. Review in a few months.
DH is convinced there's nothing wrong with him, along with my DSis who knows him well. I am an anxious person (health anxiety) but even I wasn't concerned or had noticed anything until nursery spoke with me. They say he is an enigma, there are some red flag, when I've asked his key worker about ASD, she says she's not convinced but wonders if it is more than developmental. GP doesn't seem overly concerned but stated as we're not experts and nursery have flagged it, we should refer to comm paeds, SALT etc.
Anyone relate to this? I am anxious yet also slightly defensive about him as he's still young. I'm hoping he's just quirky.
Any thoughts or advice much appreciated. Sorry it's long and rambling
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Nursery concerned about DS "in his own world"
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