Hi I am new, I have 4lovely boys aged 9,7,4,18months. I needs some advice and wondered if anyone has been in a similar situation.
my son has received his EHC plan but been refused the special school we named . I'm working with sendiass to appeal the decision.
Bit of background....
My son is 7 started reception and started having a lot of problems in class behaviour wise with temper tantrums, being violent, could not sit still, very impulsive, has sensory issues. He started to get excluded at the age of 4 and we decided maybe it wasn't the school for him and moved schools.
Straight away same issues, he's a danger to himself has no awareness of surroundings, social awkwardness, no friends the list could go on. He was regularly excluded and attended a pru unit 2days a week and had in class support but nothing helped. He even ran out class and hid in the toilets for 30mins while everyone was looking for him also the whole class has had to be evacuated because of him, I was called daily to calm him and collect him. Eventually he was permanently excluded and now attends another pupil referral unit full time. Things have been better here due to the setting, 6children in class with 3teaching staff, short lessons, lots of rewards, safe and secure, very nurturing and a safe chill out room for those meltdowns.
He also now has a diagnosis of adhd, the ed pychologist say he has a lot of anxiety issues and is behind his peers in a lot of areas by about 3years. The paediatrician said further assessments will be done as he has asd traits.
I have found a lovely special school for children with besd and they cater for a lot of children with adhd and asd. I have been to look met with head and she thinks my son fits there criteria however the local authority begs to differ! I am so angry at this the poor boy cannot go back to another mainstream school and I think it's unfair to expect him to again. He needs a permanent place where he can be understood, gain life skills and an education. I have 4children and only one with problems and it breaks my heart to see him struggle through, being picked on for the way he is and having no friends.
Sorry for the long post I was hoping someone on hear might of had some similar experience or know about the appeal process. I have a meeting next week with sendiass to discuss.
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poppy85 · 04/09/2015 20:33
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