Hope to hear your opinions. I really don't know who to discuss this with, and it is really making feel down.
Since DS was diagnosed at 12 months (he has a brain atrophy possible caused by lack of oxygen), I have been really positive about his future. He is now 22 months
I have always thought that if I work hard, give him good therapy, play with him, stimulate him as much as possible, the gap between him and his peers won't increase.
I have come to realise that he will never catch up with his peers, but, I always thought that with hard work he would progress and continue developing.
He is a slow learner obviously, it takes me plenty of weeks (months) of repetition for him to learn things, but he learns. I think he has make fantastic improvement. Overall, he is about 7 months behind in all areas.
My optimism was somewhat torn apart this week, when someone told me that his delay will become worst, the gap will increase. Because children at about 3 years of age start to think about shapes, colours, numbers, more abstract thinking. And it is then when children with development delays start really lagging behind.
This really depressed me. I will continue to work hard with DS, but I keep wondering if I am expecting too much. I though he would be able to go to mainstream, maybe be a year behind, but just be like any other child, only a little behind developmentally.
What has been your experience? I am being overly optimistic in thinking that his delay won't get worst? Or should I just accept things and put my feet on the ground?
Hope to hear from you. THanks
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