I have 3 dc. My eldest is 11, DS who is 7 and has Moderate LD and my youngest who is a toddler.
I am friends with a group of ladies who I know through my eldest. They have another 8 dc between them. 5 are 11, 2 are 8 and 1 is a baby.
In a few weeks, one of them is having a get together. It is on an evening so I wasn't going to take my youngest and the other lady isn't taking her baby but all the others are going. I was going to take my eldest and DS but I've been told that they are probably going to be outside to play which DS1 can't do so it's 'up to me'. Tone of the text sounded like she would rather him not come. It's not the first time and once I was actually told that it was only the older (11 yo) ones invited and then got there and realised the 2 younger ones (8) were there. They are only months older than my DS but obviously NT.
Am I wrong to be upset about this lack of consideration or is this completely normal for friends to not get it. My toddler doesn't care that the isn't coming but DS will be and will be gutted.
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Summeblaze · 28/05/2015 23:51
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