My son is 4 soon and he is severely speech delayed. He says many words and sometimes puts them together into simple phrases but not nowhere near where he should be for his age. He didn't say more than a few words until 3.5. He didn't point or wave until about 2-3.
He is a very happy, giggly, cuddly child. Often too affectionate as always wants a 'cuddle'. He is very loving - never been at all aggressive at home or at pre-school.
He prefers to play alone at pre-school. He seems to like the company of other children but doesn't actually play with them. They say he often has trouble sharing and taking turns. Sometimes he sits down nicely for story or snack time but other times he doesn't want to know.
He can be sensitive to loud noises. He used to petrified of hoovers (got used to it now) and my old food mixer. He is still petrified of hand dryers in the toilet.
He has been dry day and night for around 3 months, he was considerably later to train but never had accidents now.
He hates queuing, he often runs off and has no sense of danger (running into roads and I've had to grab him)
Being obessed with buttons - cash machines, parking ticket machines, door opening buttons, chip and pins and anything else he can reach - in public. Once he wanted to play with the recpetionists phone in the dentist (sigh). Also obsessed with opening and shutting doors, light switches and water (he loves to get drenched while playing with water or in the sea)
He screams a lot when he doesn't get his own way.
I can take him anywhere, where there are no distractions - the woods, quiet parks, country walks and trails. Take him somewhere where it's loud and busy with noise and buttons to press - nightmare. He has had me in tears and although he's never aggressive, he likes to get his own way and screams when he doesn't.
He screams in shops when the checkout lady scans our goods, thinking she's not going to give them back.
He's under speech therapy (poor in our area though), seen a pediatrician twice (first time they said it was just a general speech delay), seen the senior senco for our area and is seeing an educational psychologist in the next week.
Any advice?
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Shootingstar2289 · 13/04/2015 18:25
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