hi all, so, background is a family history of hfa, my brother diagnosed in 20s, my father undiagnosed
now my daughter . . .
she has always reminded me in every way of my sister.
my sister has always been a nightmare, in the nicest possible sense: dramatic, emotional, very clingy but also very aloof, problems all her life and unable to hold down a job, amazing talents and gifts, deep thinker, philosopher, poet, amazingly intelligent but no common sense.
well now my sister has been diagnosed as having aspergers as well
and everything clicks into place . . .
none of us realised how it presents in women. my sister ticks every box. but that makes me start to wonder about my daughter. she is 8. if she is on the spectrum, she will be very high functioning, but i want her to understand about herself, be able to access any help, basically be able to help her avoid all the problems i have seen my sister face in life
this is how she is
always been super clingy to me
strong separation anxiety
v difficult to get her into new groups but once she feels settled she is fine
very chatty
very analytical including about herself her emotions and her relationships
amazing memory and attention to detail eg can remember day birthday fell on 3 years ago then calculate day it will be next year
we are now having problems with
emotional outbursts and lack of control. this is only ever at home with family.
a lot of things could just be her age eg strong imagination, collects things
why i think aspergers is because she is exactly like my sister
she was fine til secondary when everything went spactacularly wrong
any advice? thanks
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