My son is 6 and in reception he was referred to a paediatrician for suspected aspergers - he is different, quirky and unique. He is fine on a day to day basis as long as he in control but if anything goes wrong he can't cope and suffers with anxciety. Academically he is flying behaviour is a bit hit and miss at school depending on the routine and situation.- this years teacher is fantastic and she thinks he does have aspergers but going down the diagnosis route would be more stressful than the condition himself. At the moment he is accepted for who he is and people love him but I am worried that because of his quirks later on when he gets older he will get bullied. He adores dancing and spends every waking moment making up dance routines. At play times at school he puts on little shows for his friends. He doesn't play with boys as he has no interest in football or dr who. His dancing is what keeps him calm and when he is feeling stressed he will break into a dance. He is in a dance troupe with all girls and he couldn't give a monkeys as long as he dancing. We popped to the park after school last night and there were some older boys from his school playing football and when he broke into dance they were saying such mean things but the more they laughed and took the mick the more he did it - he doesn't get that they are being mean he thinks that they are laughing at him not with him. He has been called names such as weirdo oddball by bigger children lately but it doesn't worry him one bit he is happy being him and doesn't seem to get when people say nasty things to him. We had an issue at school at the start of term where he was saying mean things to another child but he was using logic to state a fact and had absolutely no idea that what he was doing was mean. I am just worried that because of his differences life is going to get much much harder for him and don't know the best way to minimise this for him????
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PolterGoose ·
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