Ds1 is coming up to 6 and in y1 ms school. He has hfa, hypotonia and hypermobility in hands and elbows.
He doesn't wipe his bottom after a poo anywhere unless he is told. Even then, if it's a softer one that's a bit messy, he physically struggles and cannot seem to do it and ends op making more of a mess.
Luckily he normally poos at home, however both on Thursday and yesterday he came home from school covered in poo. I had to wash him and prise his bum cheeks apart as they had stuck together, he'd been sat in it for a while.
Saw senco as his teacher is very unapproachable (told her today that ds now has a chew buddy as he's licking and chewing inappropriate things and she's already told the senco he doesn't lick or chew! Erm, I think I know him better than her and if a lamppost isn't in appropriate what is?). She's not sure how to tackle the poo issue as ds doesn't have a statement (will be applying for SA) and is on school action plus.
Anyone got any tips for him a) actually doing it and b) gaining the ability to do it. Even talked through it's like his arm doesn't do what it should be. Help! He must be so uncomfortable.
Here are some suggested organisations that offer expert advice on special needs.
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Not bottom wiping.
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