I am worried about DD. I am keeping a diary and I am going to go to my GP in a bid to get assessments started...
Recently her anxiety levels seem to be ramping up. Mostly they are to do with me leaving her. If I am in the house she must know where I am at all times. Bedtime is the worst. She si fine and happy until we have read her story and then when it is time to clean her teeth and have a wee she becomes really clingy.
Once she's in bed we have a little routine/ritual we do that involves me naming all her cuddlies and then we have a cuddle and say goodnight.
For the past couple fo weeks she has then insisted she must read me a page form her book and then she starts to get all tearful - 'I don't like it when you leave my bedroom mummy'. I reassure that I will not be leaving the house, that I can hear her if she calls. I always give one of her favourite cuddlies and 'special mummy hug' so he can keep hugging her for me.......
Today we had sobs because if I am not there ( I do go away to take part in sporting events about 5 times a year, at the most for 2 nights, mostly just overnight) if she calls Daddy he doesn't hear her and she has to go and find him..... OH is a very sound sleeper.
If you add in the hoarding and magpie tendencies.......
I just feel so helpless - apart from her sensory issues she doesn't seem hugely ASD like apart form flashes every now and then.... When I went to the GP about DS it was so clear cut - I had examples for each part of the triad of impairment but with DD I think I'm just going to get laughed out of the surgery.....
Not a huge point to my ramble....
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neverputasockinatoaster · 21/10/2013 22:17
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