I have posted already about my DS poss autism diagnosis. He has said a few times in the last few months that he wants to die and I had clocked it but wasn't sure to what extent he understood what he was saying.
Yesterday he had a complete meltdown, trying to run out of the house so he could die in the street, attempting to strangle himslef with his hands. WWhen he calmed down he told me how sad he was. I gave him a long list of specific things that are wonderful about him and have sent him to school with a note in his bag saying how much I love him and a little biro heart on his hand to touch if he feels sad.
I am so upset. I take him really seriously, if he is sad, I absolutely believe him. I think he is realising that there is something 'different' about him.
We had a chat the other day about how he seems to be only able to write wehn he is on his own. He said it makes him feel lonely but when he is with other children their voices make him scribble.
His meltdown last night was triggered when he asked me how good his handwriting was, after a while it was clear he wanted me to say what age it was lke, and so I said 6 1/2 - he got hysterical because he wanted me to say it was like a 9 year olds. Which it isnt. Perhaps I should have just said it was .
Other than asking the school to give as much positive reinforcement as possible, what else can I do?
I think also, seeing the paediatrician last week unsettled him and I am unsure how to explain all the future appointments to him. I told him that the doctor was going to try to help him with his concentration. Maybe I did the wrong thing
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6 year old DS now saying he wants to die
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Levantine · 07/02/2013 09:51
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