ds1, who is autistic, will be 7 in about a fortnight. until last year he was in nappies at night as he refused to poo in loo or potty. he then refused to wear nappies and for a bit he used the loo. however, now he wont use loo or potty and if you say well you will have to wear a nappy then, he has a meltdown! result - he poos in his pants then washes it off in the bidet! every night. i have tried everything, including holding him down on the loo and on the potty, but this just triggered KABOOOOOOM!! as i am sure you can imagine!
i am so sick of scraping a full poo out of his pants and cleaning it up from everywhere he's smeared it or dropped it and all the sheets, clothes, towels etc he has wiped his bum on. im sick of him smelling all the time, - i have to force him to bend over and then i clean his bum with a soaped up finger!
ds2 is out of nappies for about a year also, but he usually uses the potty, unless he doesnt feel like it, then he goes (wee or poo) in the garden, on the windowsill, behind the sofa, name it, but at least he usually goes somewhere appropriate, so i feel theres hope. ds1 just wont budge no matter what i do. im still going to be cleaning him with my soapy finger when he's 35, i can feel it.
i am so sick of poo. has anyone got any advice? or messages of hope?
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nearly 7 and pooing in his pants.
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Mytwopenceworth · 24/04/2006 19:40
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