I have a mum whose dc is in dd nursery. Dd is HFA and her friend is classic autism. I am not making a diagnosis but he clearly has severe asd symptoms. His mum keeps saying he has a speech problem. We hv had 2 play dates where I could see how much help this child needs. I sent her links to everything - for diagnosis, statementing, IPSea. It is in his report that he needs 1:1 support, to the extent that he may need a special school. I saw the boy in dd class today. He was sitting in a corner alone lining up dinosaurs. Dd is fond of him and talks abt him but I.ve had to stop play dates as I realised she was copying him and becoming worse. 2 questions-
- I really would like to say to this child.s mom that she is hurting her child by not statementing, diagnosing and asking for proper support structure by staying in denial. But am not sure how to do it cos she might be stressed already. The Headteacher also said this child will get funding but mom is quiet. Should I say something to mom or keep quiet?
- About the play dates, I feel bad but we have seen dd behave like crazy after the play dates. I think she thought that is the acceptable way to behave.
Pls feel free to give your input.