Not sure whether to post here or on SN, but would rather get a wide range of views if that's OK so posting on both.
Have a meeting with class teacher at 3.15. DS has been really sad about going to school and complaining that other boys bully him, this was backed up by another child and one Mum witnessed the 'bully' telling DS 'I wish you were dead'.
After collecting DS the other day, we saw a child run past and wave a fist at him. Having had enough, we went straight to the office and spoke to the deputy head (head on sick leave).
She ahs spoken to all the kids involved and is monitoring. We also passed comment that class teacher doesn't inform us about some quite big incidents- eg, a punch that caused a bleeding nose, being kicked, as his friend told us (DS didn't) 'in the wee wee'.
School teacher was watching them when I went in to collect ds2 earlier for an appointment, and collared me saying that in her opinion it's a lot of rough boys pushing, one just happens to be stronger. Not bullying at all.
We have been through this before, the whole ds doesn't want to go says he's being bullied but school says not, at his last school.
DS has AS / HFA and doesn't get social skills at all, also doesn't seem to realise he needs to tell teachers what happens when it happens, he just intermnalises it. Other children tip us off.
Any ideas? DS1 has to be dragged in now and that's sad, he has another year to go in this school (he's 6). Generally an excellent school.
Bully is leaving at end of week, but we invited his friend round and that resulted in total meltdown so DS not liking friend any more.
SENCO on long term sick leave and not being replaced. SW mentioned a specialist Autistic school, but surely DS not that bad??? (I rewuested SW visit to arrange holiday care, not requested or fed into by school)
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PeachyClair · 06/03/2006 14:10
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