My inlaws appear to be blanking the fact that ds has a proper diagnoisis now of ASD. They seem to believe that he was just naughty and a bit odd in his behaviours, like routine, bad tantrums,etc. BTW he never kissing them good bye or say's hello, that's because he is shy they say.
We stayed at inlaws over xmas and this was just horrendous for us all. As ds wants his breakfast as soon as he wakes up, because it's routine and gets frustrated if this is changed in anyway.Father in law then had a massive argument with ds. It was awful!
Since ds diagnoisis they have not made any comment or offer any help or support. They appear to blank it and not say anything. My family on the otherhand, knew there was something wrong and sort of knew it was ASD.
My mother in law seems to think, children have a certain look about them if something not right. Because there are no physical signs with ds they appear to ignore the fact and think ds is just immature for his age. Is this common for families to ignore the diagnoisis? larsxx
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lars · 05/03/2006 18:07
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