DS is 4 years old with an ASD. His language has been really slow to develop and he isn't yet able to talk in sentances. I'm not sure if he's aware of this though as he talks all the time and will keep repeating speech over and over, even when no-one understands.
We had a meeting with the school recently and they are concerned (or fed up, possibly) that DS keeps interrupting them when the are speaking. They've taught him to say 'excuse me' (goomee in DS's words) which he picked up okay but he will just keep saying it until they stop what they are doing and listen to him. Obviously they want him to say it once so that they are aware of him and then they will deal with him when they are ready to. We asked his SALT how to deal with it and she suggested saying 'waiting' and hold our hand up in a stop sign. It worked well at the session but isn't working at home or at school at all. Actually he seems to get more frustrated and then is persistent in speaking over us and then takes absolutely ages to get his words out. I have more or less given up trying to have a conversaion with anyone except when he is at nursery as he seems to see it as his cue to talk non-stop. Has anyone got any tips or had success themselves with delaying talking (iyswim)?
The other problem is DS telling tales on other children. He's very rule and system based and has strange ideas about how things should be done. I have to walk around the sofa's a particular way, we have to leave home in a particular order (DS, then DP, then me) and I even have to get out of bed a particular way. He has similar ideas about nursery and is getting upset that children are not asking first before they do things and by the sounds of the teacher he is constantly telling tales about things that have nothing to do with him. I have tried really hard at home to break this habit by deliberately doing things in the wrong order to show him that nothing bad will happen to him, but it's not working and I'm tired of all the tears and tantrums.
I was asked to stay behind to chat to the teacher today as DS has cried for the whole session because he was pushed off of a bike. The teacher wanted all the children to take turns but DS refused to get off so the other boy pushed him off. It's as if he thinks he is in charge of everything and everyone must do as he wants them to.
I'm so fed up with it all
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What can I do about DS telling tales and interrupting all the time
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Lillypond · 02/03/2006 16:35
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